" Belajar dari Kucing"

Manusia yang berpikir adalah mereka yang menggunakan a...kal pikirannya untuk membaca, memahami serta menjadikan ayat-ayat Allah, baik yang tersurat maupun tersirat, baik yang tertulis maupun yang tidak tertulis, sebagai pelajaran bagi mereka.

Perintah untuk berpikir bagi manusia dalam beberapa ayat Al-Qur'an dimaksudkan agar kita seyogyanya benar-benar mendayagunakan setiap pancaindera dan pemberian dari Allah berupa tubuh (jasad) untuk berpikir tentang ciptaan-Nya yang nantinya akan berujung kepada kesadaran untuk menyembah dan beribadah kepada Sang Maha Pencipta.

Tanda-tanda kekuasaan Allah meliputi semua yang ada di langit dan di bumi. Tanda-tanda-Nya itu ada dan eksis diperuntukkan kepada umat manusia untuk dijadikan pelajaran. Salah satunya adalah melalui perilaku hewan yang ada di sekeliling kita.

Kali ini yang saya amati dan ambil pelajaran adalah dari kucing.

Kucing adalah satu sosok hewan yang banyak dijadikan peliharaan oleh manusia, mungkin karena fisiknya yang terlihat lucu, menggemaskan dan penurut sehingga hewan ini banyak diangkat menjadi hewan peliharaan.

Di sekitar rumah saya pun terdapat banyak kucing liar (yang tidak secara khusus dipelihara). Kucing ini biasanya kumpul di dekat rumah dan dalam kesehariannya mendapatkan makanan dari mereka yang tinggal di lingkungan tempat saya tinggal.

Salah satu kumpulan kucing ini terdiri dari seekor induk beserta tiga orang anak kucing yang lucu-lucu dan baru berusia beberapa bulan saja.

Kucing-kucing ini selalu berada tidak jauh dari rumah dan selalu menyerbu bersama-sama ketika ada yang ingin memberi mereka makan.

Malam itu saya beri mereka makan ikan. Sengaja saya potong daging ikannya agar mereka tidak berebut. Saya gunakan sendok yang diketukkan ke piring sebagai isyarat untuk memanggil kucing-kucing tersebut. Dan satu persatu, sang induk dan ketiga anaknya datang menghampiri.

Agar tidak berhamburan, saya taruh daging ikan beserta tulangnya di atas alas kertas dan saya pisahkan menjadi empat bagian sesuai jumlah kucing yang ada.

Tetapi apa yang terjadi, ternyata acara pemberian makan itu tidak berlangsung aman dan lancar. Salah satu kucing, si anak kucing yang berwarna putih abu-abu terlihat begitu serakah. Saat ia sibuk menggenggam dan mengunyah ikan, pandangannya ke kucing lain tak berubah. Ia masih sibuk mengawasi kucing lainnya juga. Saat ada kucing lain yang mencoba mengambil daging ikan yang ada di dekat si kucing abu-abu itu dengan segera cakarnya beraksi. Ia seolah tidak rela ada kucing lain yang mendapatkan makanan walaupun makanan tersebut sebenarnya cukup jauh dari dia. Dengan cakar dan diiringi suara erangan yang sepertinya memberi isyarat bahwa ia tidak rela 'jatahnya' diambil, ia beraksi dan membuat kucing lain, termasuk induknya sendiri tak berani mengotak-ngatik.

Kejadian ini berlangsung beberapa kali. Si anak kucing berwarna putih abu-abu ini memang agak berbeda dengan yang lain. Anak kucing yang lain tidak segarang dia dan sikapnya terlihat lebih kalem dan 'nrimo'.

Sekelumit kisah tentang kucing yang saya lihat tersebut bisa menjadi pelajaran bagi kita. Bagaimana sikap anak kucing yang berwarna putih abu-abu tersebut sebenarnya banyak juga terjadi di sekeliling kita.

Sikapnya yang serakah, ingin menang sendiri, tidak mau mengalah, keras kepala dan tidak peduli dengan orang lain, bahkan kepada orang tua dan saudaranya sendiri. Sikap-sikap seperti ini banyak menghinggap dalam diri kita sehingga kita banyak menyaksikan di masyarakat terjadi kasus perebutan warisan, sengketa rumah/tanah, kompetisi dalam lingkungan pekerjaan yang tidak sehat dan lain-lainnya.

Tentu saja sikap jelek ini harus kita buang jauh-jauh agar kita menjadi manusia yang mulia dan tidak mengikuti 'perilaku hewan'.

"Ikhwan Vs Cowok"

`ikhwan Vs cowok```


Suatu malam sebuah sms masuk ke hpku. Setelah beberapa kali berkirim sms, membahas buku Rahasia Cowok, ia bertanya, “emang apa bedanya cowok dan ikhwan, sama-sama laki-laki, kan?”

...Kujawab: untuk di Indonesia ikhwan mengacu pada cowok yang aktif dalam kegiatan dakwah. Pengetahuan agamanya sedikit lebih baik daripada cowok. Sedangkan secara bahasa ikhwan dan cowok, ya nggak ada bedanya, sama-sama laki-laki.

Nah, kalau kita perhatikan lebih jauh, ada perbedaan lain antara cowok dan ikhwan. Diantaranya adalah:

Ketika bertemu lawan jenis yang minta-ampun-cantiknya:

Cowok : Segera pasang senyum maut dengan mata tajam menikam

: Segera cari infomrasi tetang cewek tersebut (terutama no hpnya)

Ikhwan : Buru-buru menundukan wajah, menatap tanah hingga hampir menabrak tiang listrik di depannya.

Beristigfar seraya berdoa, “Ya Allah jika baik untuk hari depanku, dekatkanlah, jika tidak baik jauhkanlah.” ^_^

Dalam berpakaian

Cowok : suka dengan warna-warna spidol cerah seperti kuning, biru dan merah

Ikhwan : suka dengan warna-warna kalem/lembut seperti putih, coklat susu, abu-abu.

Tempat Nongkrong

Cowok : kongkow di Mall atau Cafe

Ikhwan : diskusi di Masjid

Ketika diajak bersalaman oleh lawan jenis

Cowok : menjabat erat suapya terasa halus kulitnya.

Ikhwan : sempat bengong, menimbang: salaman-nggak-sentuh tangan-nggak-menangkupkan tangan di depan dada…

Persamaan Cowok dan Ikhwan

Dalam pertemanan

Cowok : mencari TTM (Teman Tapi Mesra)

Ikhwan : mencari TTM (Teman To Menasehati)

Kriteria wajah calon pendamping

Cowok : harus cantik dan menarik, dong

Ikhwan : Tidak harus cantik yang penting alim, tapi kalau bisa dua-duanya, Allahu akbar! ^_^

Hmm… apa lagi, ya?
ada yg mau menambahkan ?

""Akhwat Vs Wanita""

Di dunia ini tentunya terdapat berbagai jenis karakter manusia, dalam hal tersebut kita dapat mempelajari dan memahami beberapa karakter manusia, pembahasan saat ini saya akan membahas tentang ciri-ciri Akhwat dan wanita.untuk lebih jelasnya marilah kita bahas hal ini. ada beberapa perbedaan antara Akhwat dan... wanita, hal tersebut di bedakan dari sudut pandang cara kehidupannya, diantaranya yaitu :

ciri-ciri seorang akhwat:

1. tidak mengenal yang namanya pacaran, tetapi akhwat itu mengenal ta'aruf yaitu hanya mengenal seseorang ikhwan itu lebih jauh lagi tanpa harus berpacaran sebagaimana mestinya perempuan biasa.
2. memakai pakaian yang sesuai dengan ketentuan agama, artinya tidak menggunakan pakaian yang minim/ketat, dan tidak menunjukkan bentuk lekuk tubuhnya. pakaian seorang akhwat itu longgar, menutup seluruh auratnya sesuai dengan aturan agama yaitu hanya menampakkan muka dan telapak tangannya, bahkan ada yang memakai cadar.
3. tidak mengenal dunia malam yaitu seorang akhwat tidak pernah keluar malam seperti wanita-wanita lainnya artinya suka dugem/pergi-pergi ke diskotik.
4. selalu mentaati perintah agama dan tidak pernah membantah orang tua.
5. tidak pernah keluar rumah kecuali ada urusan yang sangat penting seperti mengaji, sekolah, dll.
6. seorang akhwat itu selalu menjaga kemaluannya tidak seperti wanita-wanita yang selalu berada di jalan, artinya tidak seperti pekerja-pekerja seks.
7. tidak mementingkan kepentingan dunia, seperti berdandan yang berlebihan, memakai minyak wangi yang berlebihan, karena memakai minyak wangi bagi seorang wanita berarti menunjukkan auratnya.
8. selalu memilah-milih dalam bergaul
9. bertutur katanya sopan dan sangat mempunyai etika.



tidak seperti akhwat, adapun beberapa wanita yang selalu melanggar ketentuan agama, yaitu ciri-cirinya:

1. selalu menampakkan bagian-bagian tubuhnya, artinya ia selalu memakai pakaian yang minim dan memperlihatkan bentuk lekuk tubuhnya pada orang lain.
2. tidak seperti akhwat, kehidupan wanita sepeti ini ia mengenal yang namanya pacaran, dalam hal tersebut terkadang ia lupa dan akhirnya ia kebablasan hingga ia hamil.
3. tidak pernah melaksanakan perintah-perintah agama dan membantah orang tua.
4. hidupnya itu selalu berlebihan, artinya ia selalu membuang-buang/menghambur-hamb​urkan hartanya untuk hal-hal yang tidak penting.
5. tutur katanya tidak sopan dan selalu bersuara keras dalam berbicara.
6. selalu berkeinginan keluar rumah, seperti nongkrong dengan teman mainnya, shopping, dll.
7. tidak memilah-milih dalam bergaul, sehingga ia bisa kebablasan dalam pergaulannya itu.

"Surat Untukmu Akhi"

Jangankan lelaki biasa, Nabi pun terasa sunyi tanpa wanita. Tanpa mereka hati, fikiran, perasaan lelaki akan resah. Masih mencari walaupun sudah ada segala galanya.
Apa lagi yang tidak ada di syurga, namun Nabi Adam a.s tetap merindukan Siti Hawa. Kepada wanitalah lelaki memanggil ibu, isteri atau puteri.
...Dijadikan mereka dari tulang rusuk yang bengkok untuk diluruskan oleh lelaki, tetapi kalau lelaki sendiri yang tak lurus, tdk mungkin mampu hendak meluruskan mereka.
Tak logik kayu yang bengkok menghasilkan bayang-bayang yang lurus. Luruskanlah wanita dengan cara petunjuk Allah, karena mereka diciptakan begitu rupa oleh Mereka. Didiklah mereka dengan panduan dariNya.
JANGAN COBA JINAKKAN MEREKA DENGAN HARTA, NANTI MEREKA SEMAKIN LIAR. JANGAN HIBURKAN MEREKA DENGAN KECANTIKAN, NANTI MEREKA SEMAKIN MENDERITA.
Yang sementara itu tidak akan menyelesaikan masalah. Kenalkan mereka kepada Allah, zat yang kekal, disitulah kuncinya.
AKAL SETIPIS RAMBUTNYA, TEBALKAN DENGAN ILMU. HATI SERAPUH KACA, KUATKAN DENGAN IMAN. PERASAAN SELEMBUT SUTERA, HIASILAH DENGAN AKHLAK.
Suburkanlah karena dari situlah nanti mereka akan nampak penilaian dan keadilan Allah.
Akan terhibur dan bahagialah hati mereka, walaupun tidak jadi ratu cantik dunia, presiden ataupun perdana menteri negara atau women gladiator.
Bisikkan ke telinga mereka bahwa kelembutan bukan suatu kelemahan. Itu bukan diskriminasi Allah. Sebaliknya disitulah kasih sayang Allah, karena rahim wanita yang lembut itulah yang mengandungkan lelaki-lelaki wajah : negarawan, karyawan, jutawan dan " wan-wan" lain. Tidak akan lahir superman tanpa superwoman.
Wanita yang lupa hakikat kejadiannya, pasti tidak terhibur dan tidak menghiburkan.
Tanpa ilmu, iman dan akhlak, mereka bukan saja tidak bisa diluruskan, bahkan mereka pula membengkokkan.
LEBIH banyak LELAKI YANG DIRUSAKKAN OLEH PEREMPUAN DARIPADA PEREMPUAN YANG DIRUSAKKAN OLEH LELAKI. SEBODOH-BODOH PEREMPUAN PUN BISA MENUNDUKKAN SEPANDAI-PANDAI LELAKI
Itulah akibatnya apabila wanita tidak kenal Allah. Mereka tidak akan kenal diri mereka sendiri, apalagi mengenal lelaki. Kini bukan saja banyak boss telah kehilangan secretary, bahkan anak pun akan kehilangan ibu, suami kehilangan isteri dan bapa akan kehilangan puteri.
Bila wanita durhaka dunia akan huru-hara. Bila tulang rusuk patah, rusaklah jantung, hati dan limpa.
Para lelaki pula jangan hanya mengharap ketaatan tetapi binalah kepimpinan.
Pastikan sebelum memimpin wanita menuju Allah PIMPINLAH DIRI SENDIRI DAHULU KEPADANYA.
Jinakkan diri dengan Allah, niscaya akan jinaklah segala-galanya dibawah pimpinan kita.
JANGAN MENGHARAP ISTERI SEPERTI SITI FATIMAH, KALAU PRIBADI BELUM LAGI SEPERTI SAYIDINA ALI

Akhifillah, Maaf kalau saya menimbulkan fitnah dalam hidupmu. Namun semua bukan keinginanku untuk beroleh wajah seperti ini. Seharusnya di antara kita ada tabir yang akan membersihkan hati dari penyakitnya. Telah ku coba dengan segenap kemampuan untuk menghindarkan mata dari bahaya maksiat. Alhamdulillah hingga kini belum hadir sosok putera impian yang hadir dalam angan-angan. Semua ku serahkan kepada Allah ta’ala semata.
Akhi, Tentunya antum pernah mendengar hadits yang tersohor ini. Bahwa wanita dinikahi kerana empat perkara: kecantikannya, hartanya, keturunannya, atau diennya. Maka pilihlah yang terakhir kerana ia akan membawa lelaki kepada kebahagiaan yang hakiki.

Kalaulah ada yang mendapat keempat-empatnya, ibarat ia mendapat syurga dunia. Sekarang, apakah yang antum inginkan? Wanita shalihah pembawa kedamaian atau yang cantik tapi membawa kesialan? Maaf kalau di sini saya terpaksa berburuk sangka bahwa antum menilai saya cuma sekadar fisik belaka. Bila masanya antum tahu bahwa dien saya memenuhi kriteria yang bagus? Apakah dengan melihat frekuensi kesibukan saya? Frekuensi di luar rumah yang tinggi?
Tidak. Antum tidak akan pernah tahu bila masanya saya berbuat ikhlas lillahi ta’ala dan bila masanya saya berbuat kerana riya’. Atau adakah antum ingin mendapatkan isteri wanita cantik yang memiliki segudang prestasi tetapi akhlaknya masih menjadi persoalan? Saya yakin sekiranya antum diberikan pertanyaan demikian, niscaya tekad antum akan berubah.
Akhifillah, Tanyakan pada setiap akhwat kalau antum mampu. Yang tercantik sekalipun, maukah ia diperisterikan seseorang kerana dzahirnya belaka? Jawabannya, insya Allah tidak. Tahukah antum bahwa kecantikan zahir itu adalah mutlak pemberian Allah; Insya Allah antum tahu. Ia satu anugerah yang mutlak yang tidak boleh ditawar-tawar jika diberikan kepada seseorang atau dihindarkan dari seseorang. Jadi, manusia tidak mendapatkannya melalui pengorbanan. Lain halnya dengan kecantikan bathiniyyah. Ia melewati proses yang panjang. Berliku. Melalui pengorbanan dan segala macam pengalaman pahit. Ia adalah intisari dari manisnya kata, sikap, tindak tanduk dan perbuatan. Apabila seorang lelaki menikah wanita kerana kecantikan batinnya, maka ia telah amat sangat menghargai perjuangan seorang manusia dalam mencapai kemuliaan jati dirinya. Faham?

Akhifillah, Tubuh ini hanya pinjaman yang terpulang pada-Nya bila-bila masa mengambilnya. Tapi ruh, kecantikannya menjadi milik kita yang abadi. Kerananya, manusia diperintahkan untuk merawat ruhiyahnya bukan hanya jasmaninya yang boleh usang dan koyak sampai waktunya.

Akhifillah, Kalau antum ingin mencari akhwat yang cantik, antum juga seharusnya menilai pihak yang lain. Mungkin antum tidak memerhatikannya dengan teliti. (Alhamdulillah, tercapai maksudnya untuk keluar rumah tanpa menimbulkan perhatian orang). Pakaiannya sederhana, ia hanya memiliki beberapa helai. Dalam waktu seminggu antum akan menjumpainya dalam jubah-jubah yang tidak banyak koleksinya. Tempoh masanya untuk keluar rumah tidak lama. Ia lebih suka memasak dan mengurus rumah demi membantu kepentingan saudari-saudarinya yang sibuk da’wah di luar. Ia nyaris tidak mempunyai keistimewaan apa-apa kecuali kalau antum sudah melihat shalatnya. Ia begitu khusyu’. Malam-malamnya dihiasi tahajjud dengan uraian air mata. Dibaca Qur’an dengan terisak. Ia begitu tawadhu’ dan zuhud. Ah, saya iri akan kedekatan dirinya dengan Allah. Benar, ia mengenal Rabbnya lebih dari saya. Dalam ketenangannya, ia tampak begitu cantik di mata saya. Beruntung ikhwan yang kelak memperisterikannya…


Akhifillah, Mungkin antum tertawa membaca surat ini. Ah akhwat, berapa nilaimu sehingga mengimpikan mendapat mujahid seperti mereka? Boleh jadi tuntutanku terlalu besar. Tapi tidakkah antum ingin mendapat jodoh yang setimpal? Afwan kalau surat antum tidak saya layani. Saya tidak ingin masalah hati ini berlarutan. Satu saja yang saya minta agar kita saling menjaga sebagai saudara. Menjaga saudaranya agar tetap di jalan yang diridhai-Nya. Tahukah antum bahwa tindakan antum telah menyebabkan saya tidak lagi berada di jalan-Nya? Ada riya’, ada su’udzhan, ada takabur, ada kemarahan, ada kebencian, itukah jalan yang antum bukakan untuk saya, jalan neraka? –‘Afwan.
Akhifillah, Surat ini seolah menempatkan antum sebagai tertuduh. Saya sama sekali tidak bermaksud demikian. Kalau antum mahu cara seperti itu, silakan. Afwan, tapi bukan saya orangnya. Jangan antum kira kecantikan lahir telah menjadikan saya merasa memiliki segalanya. Jesteru, kini saya merasa iri pada saudari saya. Ia begitu sederhana. Tapi akhlaknya bak lantera yang menerangi langkah-langkahnya. Ia jauh dari fitnah. Sementara itu, apa yang saya punyai sangat jauh nilainya. Saya bimbang apabila suatu saat ia berhasil mendapatkan Abdullah Azzam impiannya, sedangkan saya tidak.

Akhifillah, ‘Afwan kalau saya menimbulkan fitnah bagi antum. Insya Allah saya akan lebih memperbaiki diri. Mungkin semua ini sebagai peringatan Allah bahwa masih banyak amalan saya yang riya’ maupun tidak ikhlas. Wallahua’lam. Simpan saja cinta antum untuk isteri yang telah dipilihkan Allah. Penuhilah impian ratusan akhwat, ribuan ummat yang mendambakan Abdullah Azzam dan Izzuddin al-Qassam yang lain. Penuhilah harapan Islam yang ingin generasi tangguh seperti Imaad Aql. Insya Allah antum akan mendapat pasangan yang bakal membawa hingga ke pintu jannah.

Akhifillah, Malam bertambah-dan bertambah larut. Mari kita shalat malam dan memandikan wajah serta mata kita dengan air mata. Mari kita sucikan hati dengan taubat nasuha. Pesan saya, siapkan diri antum menjadi mujahid. Insya Allah, akan ada ratusan Asma dan Aisyah yang akan menyambut uluran tangan antum untuk berjihad bersama-sama.

A Drop of Hope (A mini Drama Presentation)

Exposition        :

Synopsys

Anandtya Paramitha Citra who was born by a couple who married by accident between Maria (an Indonesian, and a college student) with Marco (a scientist from Spain) who has job in Indonesia they met in Maria’s campus when Marco as a Biology Instructor, they’re falling in love but maria’s parent didn’t agree with their relationship, because maria love Marco very much, she determined to ran away with Marco and then she was pregnant before married, after that she got married with  her ex boy friend Rama,  marco Shocked and then he passed away because he has a heart disease. Rama was paid to marry Maria by her parents, and then Rama took some profit from them bcause they’re a rich family.

After  Dhita was born, Rama still take a profit from them, because Dhita was very beautiful and many men who loved Dhita, He used that opportunity to get some money. Dhita has a disease like her father, Doctor phoniest her that she doesn’t have long age, but Dhita still optimist that she can get well from her disease, she was a clever, and she often get an achievement from government as the best young student in the world, and she has a boyfriend who love her very much, but sometime he was to over protective and it made her annoyed, and then one day she met another man, he was Iyan (an American, who has bad attitude before know her) Iyan falling in love with dhita, but for the first Dhita refused his love because he was a playboy before, but Iyan give a promise that he want to change his character

Iyan changed his character, from bad attitude into good one that’s all only for Dhita because he loved Dhita very much, so many people who respect to him especially women, look at Iyan’s changing Dhita strated to falling in love with him, until one day they got married, but when Dhita pregnant iyan has a big problem, where he must choose one of between his wife or his Children, in one side he loved Dhita very much but he didn’t want to lose his baby too because his family want his baby very much to keep their generation because they’re in small one family who difficult to get the generation. But finally Iyan decided to save his baby, because it’s Dhita’s the last request in her life, she wanted that her baby to be a Doctor to continue her ambition that she can’t  realized, because of her disease. And then Dhita passed away, and  Iyan lived with his boy and kept him until he growth to adult and be a Doctor. 

Characterization

ANANDHITYA/Dhita                                        : Protagonist (Smart, Independent, optimism, sometime not discipline  and has a big ambition) 

ADRYAN/Iyan, Boyfriend of Anandtya    : Protagonist (smart, independent, sometime over protective, care, and philntropist

FEDRO, Anandtya’s  ex boyfriend             : Antagonist (egoist, overprotective,)

DESY, Anandtya’s best friend                     : Protagonist (care, but lazy)

LAURA, Adrian’s mother                               : (smart, and care with the family although she was busy with her job)

MARIA, Anandtya’s mother                        : (patient, hard work woman, but has a small thinking)

FERMIN, Adryan’s  father                             : an ex official government (smart, responsible, and care)

RAMA, Dhita’s step father                           : Antagonist (lazy, greedy, irresponsible, and materialistic)

Ade                                                                        : protagonist (Smart and responsible)

Grandmother, Iyan’s grandmother          : Antagonist (egoist)

DOCTORS                                                            : (patient, kind, friendly)

FAIZ                                                                       : Protagonist ( care and kind)

RINA                                                                      : Antagonist (arrogant)

VERA                                                                     : Antagonist (envious, always looking for over attention )

Character

                                               

Major                                                   : Dhita, and Iyan

Minor                                                   : Ade, Rina, and Vera

Static                                                    : Desi, Doctor

Dynamic                                              : Fedro, Rama, Maria

Complication                                    : When Dhita decided to get married with Iyan many people who not agree with it,       started from their friends, and family

Crisis                                                     : Iyan must take a decision when Dhita will give birth their first child, he must save one of them

Falling Action                                    : Finally Iyan decided to save his baby, because Dhita want to be a Doctor, but she know that her dreams couldn’t be realized so she was promised that one day if she has a baby, he must be a Doctor

Resolution                                         : after Dhita passed away, then Iyan lived with his boy and his parents in USA he taught Iyan’s junior until he be a Doctor, he doesn’t get married anymore until his boy be a Doctor because he still loving Dhita and he hasn’t  forgotten her yet.

Story

Scene one

Activity one

Laura        : American woman,who marry to Fermin an Indonesian man

Morning honey, (speak to her husband) what time is it?? Did you not  go to work?? I’ve already made a Grill Bread for breakfast, it’s on the table.

Sorry honey  I must go to office first, coz I’ve a meeting this morning, love you…..

(she kissed her husband and go to work hurry up)

Fermin     : An Indonesian man,  studied in American University and got married with American girl

Yan (Adrian )….come on wake up!!!!.. this is Indonesia not America, at 7 a.m. many people busy to do their daily activity, your mom have already go to work, so you must go to your new school alone coz I’ll go to work too…

(Srrrrrruptttt……he drank his coffee and ate a piece of bread)

Iyan          : ok……..Dad….(but his eyes still closed)

Activity two

Dhita                     : A young beautiful girl, an illegitimate child from Maria and Marco who married by accident and then   divorce (because Maria’s parent doesn’t like Marco because he is only a scientist and a poor man, they want Maria married with a doctor or lawyer)

                                  Morning Mom, mom today maybe I’ll late go home coz I’ve an additional lesson

Maria                    : Ok.. but don’t forget to bring your  vitamins honey….

Dhita                     : Ok mom…….

Maria                    : An Indonesian girl who don’t have parents, she was adopted by a family famous lawyer

                                                 Dad, come on wake up, the sun have already rises….you must go to work

 Don’t be a lazy man!! please think about us…how we can survive to life if you always like this????please changed your condition

Rama                       : An Indonesian man, the Maria’s husband and Maria’s first love

                                     HUammmmmmtttttt……..(he waked up from his sleeping)

                                     Maria keep a silent please!!!!!!.......almost everyday you say like that……I bored with

                                    Your advice…..isn’t  there any another word beside that????

Maria                       : Ok its up to you…..you can do anything that want you do! But please don’t disturb my

                                     Daughter  and my parents anymore!

                                    If you want to success please do by yourself and don’t disturb other people…

Rama                       : Hyyy….Maria!!! I’m  to be like this, its because of you, so you don’t guilt me…

Maria                       : Its up to you….I’ll return Aryo go to play group first….your breakfast are on the table..

Scene Two

Activity one

At Dhita’s School

Desi                          : Hii…Dit??

Dhita                        : Hii…..you look so different today, what’s going on??don’t say if you want to copy my       homework again Des??

Desi                          : (Desi smiled with a big smiling) only for this time please????

Dhita                        : Hmmmmm…….its up to you….

Fedro                       : an Indian man, who  love Dhita very much, he is a leader of any organization Hello     Honey, Have you taken breakfast yet???

Dhita                        : Not yet……..

Fedro                       : Ok lets go to the canteen now!

                                    (Fedro was keeping Dhita’s hand)

Activity Two

At the Canteen

Fedro                       : Bab, after school  we’ve schedule for our farewell party……and don’t  forget you must     attend it.

Dhita                        : Sorry honey I cant attend it, coz I’ve schedule for  Biology Course

Fedro                       : So, we cant go home together again??? Sorry honey if I too busy with my own activity

Hiiiii…….suddenly a girl come to Dhita and Fedro, she kissed Fedro and Dhita felt jealous

She always make Dhita jealous because many girls who loved Fedro

Dhita                        : Dro, I go to the class first

Fedro                       : Ok take care honey….

Activity Three

Activity after School

After  finished a lesson, Dhita and friends Rara, Adel, Icha, and Deby have a plan going to the cinema for watching a new film, but Dhita couldn’t followed because she has a schedule for  Biology Course

Dhita                        : Sorry guys, I cant followed you

                                     I go home first, and see you tomorrow…

Friends                    : See you honey…

Dhita go to her course’s place, she always take KOP AJA in front of her school, she is used to take that public transportation because she doesn’t have a private car, actually many friends who invite to go home together  especially  boys, but she prefer  to take a public transportation because she didn’t want  make them busy.

Teacher                  : Good afternoon, how’s everything?

Dhita                        : I’m very well thank you

Teacher                  : Lets we start our study, your friends have already come since 10 minutes ago

Dhita                        : I’m sorry sir, ok lets we start our lesson

After Dhita finished her course, she went to her home but when she in the T-Junction to her home she met a boy

Adryan                    : Tittttttttttttt…….(a sound of his motorcycle alarm)

Dhita                        : Aghrrrrrrr………..(she shouted)

                                    (she almost hit his motorcycle) but Iyan went out directly

Dhita                        : hey…..You’re  impolite!!!! Come here if you a gentle man!!

                                    (Dhita go to her home directly because she was hurry up to attend a meeting)

Activity four

Dhita enter  to her home

Mom/maria          : Honey,there’s a phone for you from Ade!!

Dhita                        : What did he say, Mom??

Mom/maria          :He said that you must attend the Shiro’s meeting on 7 p.m this evening

Dhita                        : Ok Mom, I’ll attend it but I want to take a bath first

After take a Bath Dhita went to the meeting, because she has already come late.

At the meeting

Dhita                        : OMG…This Motorcycle that has already hit me ??so he was in here???

                                    HMMMM…….who is him???I’m curious?

Ade                          : Hey…..what’re you doing there? Come in please!!

Dhita                        : Oh ok!! 5 minutes more(She look at the Motorcycle  and  enter to the meeting’s       room)

Dhita                        : Sorry I’m late

Rina                          : Aghhhh…….its not strange, its your custom

Ade as a leader of meeting introduce a new member to the audience

Ade                          : Good evening, I want to introduced someone to all of you, he is a boy from USA his      name is Adriyan, He is a son of Mr. Fermin a senior officer in Jakarta, he will join with us to help us in this organization

Ade                          : Dhit, this is Iyan as your partner  he will help you in as a PR (Public Relation), so both of you must corporate each others

Dhita                        : Whatttt??????why must him???how he will responsible in this job, if he cant responsible with his attitude??

Ade                          : Have you know him before?

Dhita                        : I haven’t known him yet before, but I know him from his motorcycle, he almost hit me  and he wasn’t responsible and he was run away directly when he hit me

Iyan                          : Sorry, I was hurry up because I didn’t want to come late to this meeting

Dhita                        : Ahhh….I don’t care about your reason, for me you’re an irresponsible man

Scene Three

Activity one

In a few months later

Because Dhita and Iyan often meet and corporate, Iyan was very appreciate to Her, when they have a team work, they start to know the character of each other, step by step Iyan has already changed his bad character to be better its because of Dhita, he was appreciate to her and he started falling in love with her .

Dhita                        : Yan, can you help me to teach about this material, I didn’t know with this program? I’m not  expert with the technology

Iyan                          : Don’t say like that, I know that you’re a smart girl, you are the best student in Indonesia and in the world

Dhita                        : maybe many people who know me like that, but they didn’t know about my weakness, I ‘m not expert in all the side but I’ve weakness too. maybe you didn’t know me very much so you only think that I’m a perfect girl, although the fact was different

Iyan                          : Yes I know that you are the best student in the world, you’re smart, beautiful, nice, and independent, I like you very much

Dhita                        : What???why do you love me?

Iyan                          : You are so different with the other girls, you aren’t materialistic like the other girls, you make me realize that richness not all the way,…

Dhita                        : But, you didn’t know me at all, I have many weakness Suddenly Desi and Vera come to the room

Desi                          : Hay….guys!!! Sorry if I Disturb you

Iyan                          : never mind,

                                   : Des, have you eaten yet??and how about you Ver?

Desi                          : of course not yet, I’m still waiting for you. When you treat me??

Vera                         : No thanks, I’ve already( Vera look jealous when she saw Iyan with Dhita because she love Iyan too)

Iyan                          : when you want, I’ll treat you Des.

Desi                          : Really???? Ok lets we go to the my favorite restaurant now!!

Iyan                          : Ok, But I’m sorry I cant followed you coz I’ve a promise with other people,

                                    This the money for you, you can go eating with Dhita or another friends

Desi                          : Hmmmmmmm……….I cant go without you, I’ll go eating only with you

Iyan                          : It means not now, but another days we can go eating together

Iyan was going to met someone for his business, he left Dhita with a big smiling

Vera                         : Yan, can you help me to repair my computer tonight?

Iyan                          : I don’t know, next I’ll give you information if I could or not

Vera                         : Ok, I’ll waiting for you

                                      ( she made Dhita jealous )

Activity Two

At the night….

Dhita couldn’t sleep because she remember  about  Iyan, coz in her heart she love Iyan too, but she was  confused, because she still has a relationship with Fedro but in other side She couldn’t lie that she was love Iyan too, because Iyan more care to her, he always has much time for her, different with Fedro he was a busy man with his organization and he was too overprotective that sometime made her bored and ill feel

Dhita                        : Iyan how’re you??where’re you now??

                                    (She spoke to Iyan by a Phone)

Iyan                          : I’m at my friend’s office, I’ve a business with him but 10 minutes again I’ll go home

                                    What happened??

Dhita                        : I miss you

Iyan                          : Ok, after this I’ll come to your home

Dhita                        : Ok I’ll waiting for you

Iyan come to Dhita’s home, and Dhita told about her feeling to him, and she share about Fedro and some boys who loved her

Rama                       : Dhit, enter the room please!!

Iyan                          : good evening, sir?

Rama                       : what are you doing??

Iyan                          : I loved your daughter very much sir

Rama                       : She has already have a boyfriend

Iyan                          : I know that sir, but she doesn’t love him very much

When Rama know about Iyan’s family, Rama respect to iyan and he supported Iyan to have a relationship with Dhita

2 months again Dhita and Iyan have a special relationship, Dhita prefer to Iyan than Fedro, because Iyan more patient and he was so adult

Iyan                          : Dhit, would you marry me?

Dhita                        : its too fast Yan,I want to get my ambition first, I want to be a doctor

Iyan                          : I know it, but you can get your ambition after we got married, you can continue your  study

Dhita                        : I love you very much, I know that you didn’t want to lose me, don’t worry me just only for you, so you don’t be afraid if I’ll leave you. I have decided that you’re the last man in my life

Iyan                          : I need someone to support me in my life, I’m a businessman that sometime I have many meeting that I must attend, and of course I felt shy if I came alone without my couple and I need someone who accompanied me 24hours for giving an advise if I made a mistake, etc coz my parents are too busy with their jobs

More than three times Iyan asked Dhita for getting married with him, both of their family have already agree for this matter, but Dhita still didn’t want to get married before she get her ambition

Scene Four

Activity one

Dhita Graduated from Senior High School

After Dhita graduated from senior high school she continued her study to the University, She got a scholarship to continue her study to the abroad but she prefer to choose Indonesian University,because Iyan,and her the others friend  study at that Campus too, actually she want to continue to Pasundan University, but Her mother not allowed her, because she afraid if Dhita lived alone there coz Dhita have a serious disease

Iyan                       : how about your study, honey?

Dhita                     : So far so good, and how about you?? Didn’t  you feel exhausted between studying and working, beside that you have many activity like organization,your band, your basket ball club, but I proud on you, coz you can do it the best and you still have a time for me tin whatever your condition, its make me love you very much

Iyan                       : you’re my spirit, if I looked you I have full spirit in my life, I can be like this that’s all because of you, you have made me to be better than before, until my family and others people proud on me

Dhita                     : its not because of me, but its because of yourself, the most important is you must have a willingness to change to the better life

Iyan                       : I want to tell you, that yesterday I met Fedro he want to apologize to you for his bad   attitude when you still have a relationship

Dhita                     : so, where was he now??

Iyan                       : He back to India and he continued his study there

                                  Suddenly Faiz came to them

Faiz                        : a doctor, He is Dhita’s ex boyfriend

                                  How’re you Dhit??

Dhita                     : I’m fine, how about you and your parent?

Faiz                        : My parents and I are in good condition, but lately their often ask about you

                                 How’re you Yan??when both of you will get married?

Iyan                       : I’m still waiting for Dhita, because she want to finish her study first

Faiz                        : ok I’ll waiting for your invitation card, ok I’ll go to some place first see you

Iyan and Dhita   : ok don’t worry and see you

                               

 After Faiz left them, suddenly Dhita felt not good, her asthma flared up, and Iyan calling Faiz again

And then they took Dhita to her house, Dhita has an heart disease since she was child, because of that her mother always prohibit her to do hard work, but Dhita didn’t care about that she didn’t want let her family in a poorness because his father doesn’t have a good job, so she want to help her mother by paid for her education fee by herself, after she have a relationship with Iyan, Iyan has tried to ask Dhita not to work anymore, because he’ll responsible about her and her family too

Iyan                       : Honey, are you ok??

Dhita                     : Yan, I’m not able to face this disease again,…

Iyan                       : Don’t say like that, I know that You’re the strong woman, you can face all of this honey,               think about your family and your ambition, don’t give up we’ll there beside of you

                                 (he kissed Dhita’s brow to give a spirit)

Dhita                     : Yan, would you marry me?

Iyan                       : Yes, of course we’ll get married but you must get well first

Dhita                     : I want to spare my life with you, I want to make you happy in the end of my life

                                  Because I’m afraid if I couldn’t replied your kindness

                                 Yan, next month you to marry me

Iyan                       : is not too fast honey?

Dhita                     : Of course not, I‘ve think about that seriously, want you?

Iyan                       : Yes, I’ll marry you next month honey (Iyan say with a trickle of tears)

Activity two

One month later

After Iyan and Dhita got married, they lived at their own home, because if they lived with one of their family it will make one of them jealous, because both of them are an only child

Dhita                     : honey, I’m sorry if I not as perfect as with the other women

Iyan                       : I’m happy having you, for me you’re the perfect women that I’ve ever found

Dhita                     : I have a good news for you honey

Iyan                       : What is it??

Dhita                     : Doctor said to me that I pregnant

Iyan                       : Really??????

Dhita                     : Yes, I am pregnant 2 weeks

Iyan                       : Thanks God (Iyan expressed his happiness by performing this bow to the ground) you

                                  Let us to keep your trusteeship, we promised that we will keep it the best

Activity three

Nine months later

Dhita will give birth, Iyan take her to the best hospital in Jakarta, Dhita was taken by a nurse and a doctor to the room, Iyan and his family are panic, suddenly the doctor go out from the room

Doctor                  : who is her husband?

Iyan                       : I’m, Doctor??how about my wife and my baby’s condition?

Doctor                  : They’re not to good, you must choose one of them, because we couldn’t save all of

                                  Them, with your wife condition who has a heart disease,

Iyan                       : Are not there the other alternative to save them?( he was very confused and panic) he

                                 He want both of them coz he loved his wife very much, and he and his family wanted to

                                 Have a baby to keep the generation

Grandmother    : save the baby

Maria                    : Save the mother

Iyan                       : Oh my God, give me the miracle please I want both of them (he still confused)

Doctor                  : Come on sir, You must decided now, we don’t have any time more?

Iyan was remember about Dhita when they’re still have a relationship before marriage, that have ambition want to be a Doctor, but it’s impossible because a doctor must have a strong and healthy body and Dhita doesn’t have all of this, but he ever said that one day if she has a children she want that her children to be a Doctor, because she want to help the other people who couldn’t able to pay the hospital fee, she felt sad when her father Marco passed away because of heart disease and his family couldn’t paid the hospital fee because they are a poor family

Iyan                       : Save the mother, Doctor

Maria                    : Yan, what’re you do??

Iyan                       : I’m sorry mom, I must take this way, because this is Dhita’s trusteeship

A  few minutes later a baby was born

After Dhita gives birth her child she still conscious for a few minutes, she still have a time to look her baby and her husband, with a low sound she was said to her husband, honey I’m sorry I couldn’t accompanied both of you, please keep our children well I want him to be a Doctor, because I’ve fail to be a Doctor. I love you so much………and Dhita passed away